June 5, 2020

Today marks another HIV Long-Term Survivors Awareness Day (#HLTSAD). Even as we celebrate the longevity, resilience, and incredible achievements of so many long-term survivors–many of whom never expected to live more than a few months at the time of diagnosis–PWN recognizes that not all long-term survivors have had the same experiences. And tragically, far too many people diagnosed with HIV even today–especially Black folks, people of trans experience, and Latinx folks–face so many barriers, too often the result of systemic racism and transphobia, that they never become long-term survivors. As we honor the many inspiring long-term survivors among us, we also grieve those who should have been here with us today and are not.

Some long-term survivors acquired HIV as adults in the early days of the epidemic, when there was no effective treatment, and lost so many friends, partners, colleagues, family members, and loved ones. Other long-term survivors were born with HIV and have never known what it’s like to live without that diagnosis. And, four decades into the epidemic, there are long-term survivors today who were fortunate enough to have access to effective medication at or soon after diagnosis. Much has changed over the course of the epidemic, and sadly, too much has remained the same, especially when it comes to stigma and barriers.

Please join PWN in celebrating our long-term survivors today, grieving our loved ones gone too soon, and in demanding an end to the racism, transphobia, homophobia, xenophobia, stigma, and broken health care system that make survival of a manageable health condition a privilege in this country.


Shero of the Month: Alecia Tramel

Our May 2020 Shero of the Month is Alecia Tramel of Miami, Florida. Alecia is a mother, grandmother, community activist, HIV advocate, as well as PWN’s Florida State Lead. She is the founder of Positive People Network, Inc., a social organization for people living with HIV and AIDS that provides opportunities for social support, outings, and direct support for people in need.

“Alecia is a powerhouse here in Miami and nationally,” said Jennie Smith-Camejo, communications director for PWN. “From providing direct support on the ground to people experiencing homelessness, to fundraising to support people living with HIV having trouble making ends meet, to organizing her community to pass Amendment 4 restoring voting rights to people with felony convictions, to participating in the Florida HIV Justice Coalition, working to reform the state’s HIV criminalization laws, she never stops working to help her community and is involved in everything! It’s amazing how much she is able to accomplish with only 24 hours in a day.”

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Long-Term Survivors: In Our Own Words

“I have learned that I am more than a diagnosis. I am not limited to receiving or giving love, dignity, pleasure, or humanity just because I am living with HIV. I will keep living, thriving, and surviving.” – Kamaria Laffrey, Florida, diagnosed in 2003.

“32 years ago, when I tested positive for HIV/AIDS, women of color were not taking the initiative to test nor were health care providers offering information.

Presently, advanced testing technology has become available for prevention. My advice is to be proactive and take the test.

Today, I am a strong advocate for universal health care and lowering prescription costs. The demand for these changes is urgent and a priority for me as I continue to age with new comorbidities.

I attribute my longevity to family, healthier life choices, and the insight to embrace every moment with enthusiasm, because my life matters.” – Lepena Reid, Tampa, FL.

“30 years and counting!! Thriving, advocating, empowering others, and living life on life’s terms by the Grace of God.” – Bonetta Spratley, South Carolina.

“I feel more alive than ever – living with HIV 28 years has taught me how to love myself and inform others.” – Lillibeth Gonzalez, New York.

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“Being a long term survivor of HIV for 25 years means I no longer live in fear. I’ve seen the worst of times and the best of times, and I’ve learned that the sun rises and sets on both days as long as I choose to keep moving forward.” – Connie Shearer, Las Vegas, NV.

“This year, 2020, will be my 20th year living with HIV. My survival and my journey to thriving are all because of women living with HIV before me and the young women living with HIV. They’ve challenged me when I needed to be challenged, loved, and laughed with me, and they stand up to fight alongside me when needed.” – Evany Turk, Dallas, TX.

“As long term survivors living with HIV, we are strong, fierce and amazing! To everyone living with HIV, we have done this together, always have, and always will.” – Barb Cardell, Boulder, CO, living with HIV for 29 years.


“27 years of thriving with HIV has been a powerful, spiritual, incredible experience. What makes it beautiful even through extreme difficulty is the people living with HIV, their compassion, courage, intelligence, and their ability to be intrepid when fighting injustice, and a complete understanding throughout this family of PLHIV that our authenticity, the way we all handle and tell our own stories always helps others. One of the most important things about being a long term survivor is to show up. Keep showing up. Encourage others to show up. Tell yourself every day that you are an amazing, talented person living with HIV, in other words, always use people-first language. HIV will never define me. We are not dirty, tainted, infected, or ever “less than.” – Susan Mull, PA

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“I have lived through the stigma, discrimination, and feeling less than. COVID 19 reminds me of the beginning of HIV and what that looks like today. I have been living with HIV for 20 years, which I’m grateful to have lived this long after being told in 2009 I had six months to live. Out of my 59 years, I have never seen anything like [COVID19] before. As I watch around me, family and friends are dying every day. There are people saying COVID 19 is fake, and you don’t need to wear a mask.

As a woman living with HIV, I know the risk of getting sick and doctors don’t yet know how to really treat this new COVID 19. As I look around me so many families have lost jobs, shelter, and loved ones. It breaks my heart. Stigma is still real for people living with HIV and while stigma and discrimination around COVID 19 are escalating; communities of color are paying the price. How do you heal and maintain from such loss and sorrow? Until health professors tell me it’s okay not to wear a mask I might think about it, but as a black woman living with HIV for 20 years, I can’t afford to gamble with my life and my family’s life around COVID 19. In order to make a change, you must be the change in your own life.” – Tana Pradia, Houston

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